Post by Yuki on Sept 30, 2006 23:07:36 GMT 7
Don't Cry Over Men As Such
Article By Michelle Ye
Translation By Little_Purple_Bell
Before writing this article, I'm going to very clearly express that I don't have a personal friendship with Fiona Yuen nor Anne Heung, so this article that I'm writing right now doesn't have any biased statements towards these two women. The reason that this all came to me was when I saw two news articles when reading an entertainment magazine. (I usually don't read entertainment magazines, but I disagreeistant gave it to me that day, informing that there's a report made about myself, so I took a look at the magazine.) The news articles basically were informing us that both of these female artists had boyfriends who broke up with them because they "couldn't take the pressure from the media".
Here, I don't want to discuss of how true these two reports are because entertainment reports are constantly two different things from the truth, so besides the victims, there's no one else who knows the exact truth. But from my own experience of being in the entertainment circle, I could also say with a lot of experience too, if a man tells you that he's giving up on you because he can't take the pressure from the media, then you should might as well call up all your friends and neighbours and send him away with a farewell party because this man is so useless and making up some lame excuse to leave you, then you don't have a reason to even mention him ever again.
Speaking from a point of human nature, then this man should be one who is greedy towards fame, wealth, status, and facial appearances; that would be why he wanted to court a female celebrity out of the blues. But if a woman is allowed to pick a boyfriend from the balances of status, fame, wealth, and appearances, then what makes you think that a man isn't allowed to do so? So the motive of this kind of men isn't wrong. The problem comes in during the process of the love. They enjoy the honour of having such a famous and beautiful girlfriend, and having this artistic woman bring them countless romantic moments and a practical stage of energy. But if it were that perfect, then why would they "not be able to take the pressure" if all that happened were by-standers speaking a few statements that weren't nice towards their ears? From this, we can conclude that it's just an excuse. The real reason could be that this kind of men, after walking near any woman, isn't able to see the halo on top of their head after stepping so closely. After the feeling of freshness has gone by, they would want to make their escape as soon as possible, but because of being extreme of their vanity and don't want to be said to be irresponsible, they would make any kind of possible excuse up .
In conclusion, this kind of men really do make people look down on them. They are definitely not worth the woman to suffer matters of grievance and cry over, or even to the extreme point of leaving the entertainment circle because of such. One should walk the path as you desire and not alter your way of reaching your ideal destination and target because what someone else wants. That is how you will achieve your steadiness and happiness. Don't waste your good youth down on a man who doesn't truly love you! But true love could be accounted to differ, so we'll talk about it next time.
credit to rm-daily.blogdrive.com/
Article By Michelle Ye
Translation By Little_Purple_Bell
Before writing this article, I'm going to very clearly express that I don't have a personal friendship with Fiona Yuen nor Anne Heung, so this article that I'm writing right now doesn't have any biased statements towards these two women. The reason that this all came to me was when I saw two news articles when reading an entertainment magazine. (I usually don't read entertainment magazines, but I disagreeistant gave it to me that day, informing that there's a report made about myself, so I took a look at the magazine.) The news articles basically were informing us that both of these female artists had boyfriends who broke up with them because they "couldn't take the pressure from the media".
Here, I don't want to discuss of how true these two reports are because entertainment reports are constantly two different things from the truth, so besides the victims, there's no one else who knows the exact truth. But from my own experience of being in the entertainment circle, I could also say with a lot of experience too, if a man tells you that he's giving up on you because he can't take the pressure from the media, then you should might as well call up all your friends and neighbours and send him away with a farewell party because this man is so useless and making up some lame excuse to leave you, then you don't have a reason to even mention him ever again.
Speaking from a point of human nature, then this man should be one who is greedy towards fame, wealth, status, and facial appearances; that would be why he wanted to court a female celebrity out of the blues. But if a woman is allowed to pick a boyfriend from the balances of status, fame, wealth, and appearances, then what makes you think that a man isn't allowed to do so? So the motive of this kind of men isn't wrong. The problem comes in during the process of the love. They enjoy the honour of having such a famous and beautiful girlfriend, and having this artistic woman bring them countless romantic moments and a practical stage of energy. But if it were that perfect, then why would they "not be able to take the pressure" if all that happened were by-standers speaking a few statements that weren't nice towards their ears? From this, we can conclude that it's just an excuse. The real reason could be that this kind of men, after walking near any woman, isn't able to see the halo on top of their head after stepping so closely. After the feeling of freshness has gone by, they would want to make their escape as soon as possible, but because of being extreme of their vanity and don't want to be said to be irresponsible, they would make any kind of possible excuse up .
In conclusion, this kind of men really do make people look down on them. They are definitely not worth the woman to suffer matters of grievance and cry over, or even to the extreme point of leaving the entertainment circle because of such. One should walk the path as you desire and not alter your way of reaching your ideal destination and target because what someone else wants. That is how you will achieve your steadiness and happiness. Don't waste your good youth down on a man who doesn't truly love you! But true love could be accounted to differ, so we'll talk about it next time.
credit to rm-daily.blogdrive.com/
totally agree with Michelle 
